“CHILDREN ARE GOOD, INFACT THEY ARE GIFTS FROM THE LORD
HAPPY IS A MAN THAT HATH HIS QUIVER FULL OF THEM” BUT THEY ARE NEEDED TO BE TRAIN.
Giving birth to the numbers of children you cannot take good care of is another way of child abuse.
Plenty children is never a way to escape poverty, rather its another way to increase needs, and when needs are increased anxieties multiplied, peace is gone, trouble and pain becomes the order of the family.
But remember there is nothing as good as having plenty children it only you contain them. The Bible is always right which says happy is a man that hath his quiver full of them. Children are like plane sheet, what you write on them is what you have when they grow up.
We rear animals but children are to be trained. Life is a choice, and every person wants the best for themselves.
Pursue carriers, and achieve great vision or dreams, attend many goals and fulfill your destiny, without good children you have just abounded in vain.
Your children are your representatives, what they do after your departure testify about the life you have lived.
Remember your failure to train up your child today will be the architect of your misfortune tomorrow.
As the glory of a house is determined by it foundation, so the future of every child is groomed by the parents.
Every flower is known by its beauty, but when is left unkempt it becomes a tree.
King Solomon remarks, a wise son makeths gland his father: but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.
Hear me the truth is that, the share is not only address to the mother alone, it will also bring shame and tarnish the image of the father.
A child trained is better than children left to themselves.
KEY POINTS 2
Reproof and chastisement are the duty of parents, but a child left to him brings shame to the household.
School only offer subject, but good character and moral behavior are the result of parent training.
Training requires the attention of parents but leaving children to the school teachers and maiden at home are danger signals to the future of our children.
Fathers are expected to provide food and shelter to the household, while mothers are to build the home.
Spear the rod and spoil the child, use the rod on the child and he will not die.
We train a child, not an adult, correct a child with cane when he’s wrong do not say he or she is a child, children learn by instruction, reproof and chastisement, but an adult improves by counseling and advice.
EIGHT WAYS TO BRING UP GOOD CHIRDREN
Time: You must have time with your children spend at list one or two hours weekly with your children an hour spend with your children is an investment made to grow their lives because your children believe you better than any other person on earth.
Patience: – You need to be patience with them while teaching them because some are quickly to learn why others are slow in understanding.
Always talk with them: – Talking with your children like your friends gives you easy access to their feeling to know when the enemies want to sneer in something in their lives.
Beat or cane them: – You must do these because the one who create them has asked you to do so, if it’s not important he would have told you. Children learn by correction and not by advice.
Love them: – When I say love them I mean sharing intimacy with your children you should know their feeling and what they go through at a moment.
Understanding their characters: – Understanding their characters make easy for you to know their feeling s ten know how to handle it.
Freedom: – House imprisonment will never makes your children good rather it will creating them fear of others and make hard for them to relate with people when the time comes.
Trust and believe :- You must learn to trust and believe your children so they can build their hope and believe in you ,always try to find out the truth before you ague.
Good children are a result of yielding to good instruction, but an evil child is the fruit of the parent negligence.
No child is born with criminal attitude
No child is born with the act of prostitution
No child is born with stealing gift or talent
No child is born with lying tongue, but environment and parents negligence contribute to all these.
children are a heritage of the LORD and the fruit of the womb is his reward. and God saw everything that he had made behold, it was very good.